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30-Day Weight Loss to Help Overcome Compulsive Eating
We recommend 30 days on raw fruits and vegetables. Raw
food is used by sanitariums in the healing of disease because it is
similar to a juice fast in detoxifying the body. The process is slower,
but the effect is the same; you will be revitalized. If you stick to this
program, you will experience an exhilaration that you have never known.
You will feel vitally alive. As your blood clears of all addictive
substances, you will feel great. Any health conditions will be noticeably
improved or even healed. Your sinuses will clear of mucus and you will be
able to smell even the faintest of scents. You will be able to breathe
deeply, feeling each breath enter the lungs. The mental fog will lift and
your mind will become more alert. Your skin will soften and feel sleek.
You will feel 10 years younger and look like it.
Raw food is loaded with enzymes, vitamins and minerals.
For the first time in your life, your body is functioning free of heavy
proteins, milk fats, animal fats, cholesterol, mucus forming starches,
trans-fatty acids, food additives and high doses of salt and sugar. You
have given your body a time of rest and healing.
The first week will be the hardest, especially the
first few days, for that is the time when the body undergoes the most
intense cleansing. As the weeks progress, you will feel better and better.
Although juice fasting is superior in its healing
effect, the challenge of a raw food diet is better than juice fasting at
developing the skills to control food intake. When a compulsive eater
juice fasts, he feels free from food addiction, but as soon as he starts
to eat, hunger triggers all the compulsive desires and distorted thinking
patterns that were never dealt with. The result is a binge. The benefit of
a 30-day fast can be lost in three weeks of indulgence.
Juice fasting has more amazing benefits than a raw food
diet, but first you must develop the skills to combat compulsive eating.
By occasionally replacing meals with fresh-made juice, you are gaining the
benefits of juice fasting while battling compulsive eating. For this
reason, juice is an important component of the raw food program. Try to
have freshly made juice each day.
Thirty days of raw food is a challenge that will
powerfully affect your life. These diet restrictions are difficult to
face, but in doing so, you will bring about healthy changes that will
benefit your body and mind. Healthy changes are an investment in your
future.
The raw food diet includes:
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Raw fruits and vegetables
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Fruit and vegetable juices
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Herbal teas
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Honey and natural sweeteners
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Frozen juice concentrates
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Frozen fruit
Preparation for the
Program
Read the book before you start.
Buy the produce you need. Buy a food processor, blender and juicer.
Create some raw food recipes you enjoy.
Build your resolute decisions. Find a friend who will
do this along with you so you may support each other. Tell those who
will be affected by your decision how much this matters to you, and ask
them for their help and understanding.
During the Program
Read this chapter once per day.
Write out some points that you want to work on for that day. Constantly
remind yourself of the reasons you are doing this. Remind yourself of
what you have suffered by being a slave to food. Refuse to allow your
mind to think negatively. Be intent on making each thought a positive
one. Refuse to put yourself down. Always build and encourage. Ponder,
pray, read, study and invest energy; the more you put into it, the more
you will get out of it.
Get focused in the morning, especially with prayer.
The first thing to do while getting out of bed is to do some exercise to
get the blood moving. This works faster than coffee. Take a shower and
at the end, run the water cool or cold. As you face the discomfort of
the cold water, strengthen your mental stance for the day: "I
refuse to eat donuts. I refuse to drink coffee. I refuse to be negative.
I refuse to worry. I refuse to be lazy. This is going to be a great day."
Start a journal to keep you objective in seeing your accomplishment and
failures.
Try to feed your mind with positive input. Choose
educational programming on television. Cut down on reading newspapers.
Much of it can be negative. Cut down socializing with negative people.
Don't read horror novels. Develop a workout routine. Go for relaxing
walks to be at peace and encourage yourself.
Cut out the negative influences on your thinking. You
need to strive at being active in your thinking process to work at
fighting negative thoughts. This will take time.
During Eating
Plan your meals ahead and put
some energy into making the meal appealing. We go overboard for our
guests, but ignore our enjoyment by eating from the refrigerator or
cupboard. Try to clean up before you eat so you will not have a chore
that can be an excuse to keep eating. Wait until after the meal before
you drink. Herbal tea is relaxing; it will help you move out of the mode
of overeating. Look at your food before you eat it. Tell yourself how
good it is going to taste. Relax, you do not have to eat right away.
Wait a minute before you eat to get focused on the food.
Eat predetermined quantities, no more. Chew your food
well. Slow down and relax. Do not think about problems. Be present with
the food. Feel content as you eat. Enjoy your food to the fullest,
savoring every bite as though it is the last. Imagine all those
nutrients going to your happy cells. Be thankful. Feel satisfied as you
finish the meal. Create revulsion if you are still hungry. Visualize
yourself enjoying your next activity, then get motivated.
Get Hungry
You can face hunger and be at
peace. Ignoring hunger can cause feelings of being deprived that stir up
uncomfortable emotions. It may take some prayer to be able to face
hunger. For the next thirty days, make it your goal to eat one bowl-full
or small portions of food, then wait until you are hungry before eating
again. It is better for you to eat several small meals each day than
three big ones. Larger meals have a tendency to overload the body with
calories that can be turned to fat.
Eating while hungry reduces fat production. If you
eat when you are not hungry, the blood is filled with calories and you
are adding more, so the excess is turned to fat. When you eat when you
are hungry, the body needs calories so there is no excess. If you want
to be thin, eat smaller amounts when you are hungry. Put a check mark
every time you have waited till you are hungry before you eat. Put a
number beside the check mark. Five is really hungry and one is a little
hungry. Look at your successes and feel good about them. Each time you
face hunger and win, you are conquering food addiction. Hunger prepares
the stomach for food. It makes it tastier, and lets the digestive
systems have smaller portions of work to do. Eating this way will give
you a blast of energy better than that of coffee. Expect more energy. If
you lose the desire to eat, you have started to detoxify. If so, you
will feel weak for a few hours or days. Drinking freshly made juice will
keep your energy up during these times.
Urge Fighting Skills
This battle is for freedom;
refuse to fail. You can feel intense emotions and choose not to give in.
Tell yourself, "I refuse to quit. I refuse to give in. I refuse
to fail." During the emotional windstorms caused by temptation,
ask yourself, "what do I really want?" Eating to
relieve stress is not what you want. What you really want is to be at
peace. Eating out of anger is not what you want. What you want is to
resolve the issue. Eating to relieve fear is not what you want. What you
really want is the courage to face it. Eating in the place of boredom is
not what you want. What you really want is a challenge that will stir
some excitement within you.
Do not fight obsessive thoughts, but deflect them
into positive thoughts and activities. Use mini-breaks to change your
mood and break cycles of obsessive thinking. Do something you enjoy for
a few minutes until the emotions diminish. Play an instrument, exercise,
go for a short walk, or do some stretching. Not only will you be
fighting obsessive thoughts, but improving your life one mini-break at a
time. Do not give in to an urge; each time you do, the pleasure will
create a craving to repeat it. Remind yourself that junk food is
artificial pleasure that steals from your body. If you do not feed a
craving, it will die. If you become anxious, take a slow, deep breath,
holding for one second, and then release, think peace. Let go and let
God.
Create the feeling of revulsion to the point of
nausea: finger nails scratching a blackboard, a hair in your soup, dog
vomit on your carpet, a wet fur ball on your bed, or a bug in your shoe.
Find what image best works for you. Use negative labeling. Bacon is
burned strips of cholesterol and fat. Make up your own negative labels
for the foods you are trying to quit. Play the mental tape to the end;
look at the big picture. Don't look only at the pleasure, but focus on
all of the negative consequences.
When we discipline ourselves, we feel as though we
have lost something, and feel deprived. Fight that feeling with the fact
that you have what you need to be happy. Challenge the feeling of loss.
Remind yourself of the bad qualities of the food you
hate. Refuse to eat them. Avoid triggers like donut stores and bakeries.
Avoid spending time in the kitchen or at the dinner table when you start
to feel tempted. Plan your meals. Have fruit or vegetable snacks ready.
The first few days can be the toughest. If you feel
weak and out of it, it will be difficult to discipline your thoughts.
Discipline is work, and feeling toxic creates an ‘I don't –care’
feeling. It will pass once the blood clears of toxins. Do the best you
can during these times to remain resolute.
Be Resolute
The longer you focus on a
temptation, the weaker your resolve will become. You are sending
thoughts into your subconscious that are weakening your decisions. In
the face of temptation, be firm. Accept that you are being tempted, but
refuse to give in. Be stubborn. No arguments allowed. Your decision is
final.
We all have a stubborn part of our character that
digs its heals in and says, "no, I refuse." It can get
us into a fair bit of trouble. It can also be used to form resolute
decisions. Certain thoughts stir that stubbornness into activity. If you
were told to rob a bank or run naked down the street, you would
stubbornly refuse, even at gun point. Imagine if you refuse to eat junk
food with that same power of conviction.
It is easier to refuse to do something than it is to
try to do something. Which statement is stronger, "I will try to
eat better" or "I refuse to eat junk food." Stubbornly
refusing to do something has power. It is absolute refusal that makes
decisions resolute.
The second part of a resolute decision is being
intent. Being intent is to be fixed on something. Like an athlete
preparing for the challenge, be fixed on what you intend to achieve. Do
not become distracted. Be connected to the victory, just as an archer
aims for his target. All that he can see is that target. Once he has
fired his arrow, he relaxes and gets ready to become intent again. The
focus is exhausting. It requires 100% attention. Be like that. See the
goal and become totally fixed on it for periods of times during each
day, especially just before you eat or face temptation. Once it is over,
you can relax till the next target comes up.
Resolute decisions end mental wars. Weak decisions
are useless. Inevitably, you compromise, then feel like a failure. Make
your decisions resolute. Pull out that part of your nature that digs its
heals in when it is told to do something it does not want to do.
If you have made the decision to eat one bowl full of
food per meal and wait till you are hungry before eating, you have to
think of that decision, then create a storm in your soul: "I am
not getting pushed around any more. I refuse to be controlled by food.
Cravings, do your worst. I will not budge. I am standing firm. My
decision is unchangeable. I will not give in." This is war. How
long are you going to let this problem go on in your life? Till the day
you die? Feel it! A resolute decision is forming.
The three important decisions you will have to be
resolute about:
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Refuse yourself permission to eat anything
except raw food. Be intent to finish the 30-day program. Refuse to
fail.
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Refuse yourself permission to overeat. Be
intent on eating one bowl of food or a small portion, and wait
until you are hungry before eating again.
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Refuse to think negative thoughts. Be intent
that you will think only positive thoughts.
These decisions are paramount to the success of the
program. Each day you have to go over the reasons as to why you have
made these decisions, and strengthen those decisions by reaffirming your
intent not to give in: "I will not bend regardless of how I
feel. My decision is final." If you feel weak, go down in the
basement, plant your feet firmly on the floor and shout with all your
strength, "I will not give in. My decision is made and that is
it."
As soon as you weaken in your decision, the battle
starts. Pain comes in, emotions stir to a storm: fear, insecurity,
anxiety, feeling empty and deprived. These feelings will not exist if
your decision is resolute. They come because you are allowing yourself
to consider breaking your decision. Even if you do not break, those
feelings will have weakened your decision and you will need to rebuild
it. If you do not, you will fail.
Make a list of your resolute decisions and read it
daily.
Leave The Past
Quit living in the past. You
can't fix it. Let it go and decide to move on. Live your life to the
fullest. Feelings can be a lie; learn to challenge them by asking
questions. "Why am I feeling this way?" Accept what
needs to be accepted. Allow yourself to be like a child. Don't let
the past ruin your future.
Be Motivated
Your thoughts determine how you
feel. It is time to change those self-defeating thoughts. Stop all
self-criticism. Do not use "should" statements. Do not blame
or make excuses for your behavior. Take responsibility, accept and love
yourself. Feel good about your accomplishments. Do the worst tasks
first.
Refuse to worry, especially during eating. Get the
problem down on paper. Be objective. Make your decisions, then stop
worrying and do something positive. Make a list of your
priorities and goals. Make a list of positive statements to say to
yourself for encouragement. Learn how to create the feeling of joy and
peace.
Your brain is filled with negative thoughts. It will
take work to change the programming. When you do, discipline becomes
easier.
Facing Failure
If you fall off the track, do not
quit, but be sympathetic to yourself. Allow yourself to fail; it is an
acceptable part of learning. Don't make a big deal out of it. Focus on
the goal, not the failure. Examine what caused you to fail and come up
with ideas to prevent it from happening again. Do not beat yourself up
with guilt. Feel regret, then build the desire to change. Feel bad about
the decision, then make a decision and move on to your goals. Encourage
yourself. Think of the things that you have accomplished.
Blowing it is part of the process of learning how to
do it correctly. You are not a failure. You have come so far and
accomplished so much!
Fight those feelings of worthlessness. Forgive yourself.
Rebuild your desire to try again. Look at all the
benefits. Come on, you can do it!
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Fill your brain with pictures
that move you forward, inspire, and encourage yourself. See yourself
successfully completing your goals. See yourself enjoying your next
activity to get moving. See yourself overcoming temptation. See yourself
happy and full of joy.
Take Ten
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Take ten minutes to pray shortly after
awakening "Lord help me to do this. I really want to. This
is important to me."
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Take ten minutes to build conviction to your
resolute decisions.
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Take ten minutes to consider your
accomplishments and feeling good about them.
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Take ten minutes to do a visualization
exercise.
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Take ten minutes each night to journal your
day. Bring the failures into context and feel good about your
successes.
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Take ten minutes to stretch or exercise.
Dessert as a Meal
Most of your meals should be
fruit salads. They are easy to make, delicious, and full of enzymes.
BASE: Freeze peeled, ripe bananas in freezer
bags. As they start to freeze, break them up so they will not clump
together. Bananas will store in the freezer for months. If you are
cutting a frozen banana that is too hard, place it in the microwave for
10 seconds. To eat them like a Popsicle, wrap the bottom with a paper
towel. For the fruit salad base, use oranges, melons, grapes, peaches,
or the fruit of your choice. Dice the fruit into bite-sized pieces then
place in a bowl. Frozen banana slices are added next. They taste like
ice cream. Chill the mixture.
FRUIT DRESSING: The dressing is the most important
part. The dressing will make fruit taste like one of the best desserts
you have ever tasted, but it will be healthy.
To make your dressing, mix
applesauce and one tablespoon of orange or pineapple concentrate.
Avocados also make an amazing dressing. Avocados are high in calories.
They’re perfect if you are an athlete in training or have a fast
metabolism and do not want to lose weight during the 30 days. Buy ripe
avocados. Test them by pressing with your thumb. They should give a
little, but not be mushy. To make an avocado dressing, blend avocados
with frozen orange, pineapple or apple concentrate. Frozen juice
concentrates sweeten the mixture. You can also use the frozen
concentrates as a topping; just mush and spread over the top.
TOPPING- Sprinkle chopped dates with cinnamon for
the final touch.
These fruit desserts will never get boring. You’ll
feel no sleepiness or bloated feeling after eating, but a clean burst of
energy. Try to make the mixture ten minutes in advance. Put it in the
freezer, clean up and spend a few moments in prayer to be at peace. You
will easily appreciate every bite.
Orange-Banana Shake - 1 Banana, 1/4 can frozen
pineapple or orange concentrate, one cup water and 4 ice cubes.
A Bigger Mountain
Congratulations! You’ve
achieved the thirty days. You're high on life, flying on the jet steams
of joy. Every cell of your body is bursting with enthusiasm. Why stop
here? The 30 days is just a launching pad. Bigger mountains are waiting.
Consider the 90-day challenge. You are already one third of the way
there. Your body and mind will feel amazing by this point. Believe that
it gets even better. Climbing the 90-day mountain will revolutionize
your life more than you can possibly believe.
The 90-day program has three parts.
- One thirty-day raw-food program.
- One thirty-day fast.
- Another thirty-day raw-food program.
The 30-day fast is mostly a juice fast, but we
recommend two periods of water fasting of three days in length, or one
five-day water fast during this time period. It is not starving, as your body is being flooded with
nutrients. Because your body is clean, you will find
these periods easy. There will be a sense of freedom that you have never
experienced. Do not expect to feel dragged out.
The 30 days back on the raw food diet is the only way
to continue gaining more of the same astounding benefits you have
received. Most people break a lengthy fast over 10 days. But thirty days
is even better.
The above was an excerpt
from Eating in Freedom! The only
book you will ever need on weight loss and food addiction.
Learn how to fight cravings. Lose weight through self-encouragement, overcome obsessive thinking and
rebuild self-discipline to form resolute unshakable decisions.
Written by a former overeater!
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