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Write Your Bad Food
Hit List
It's going to be war. Time to rally courage. Why do you want to win? Is it
important? Are you ready to pay the price of pain for freedom? Can you see
the victory? Do you want it? If you are saying "yes" with
burning desire, you are ready.
If you are not ready to quit, don't even try. Quitting
for a few hours or days is only a tease. It intensifies the desire. Almost
quitting reinforces the addiction and strengthens the attachment to food.
The only effective way of ending an addictive behavior
is to stop it. Anything less will only increase the addiction, making it
more deeply engraved. You have to win the first time you try. No
half-hearted effort will do. Struggling and losing will painfully increase
the power of the addiction. When we fail with quitting an addiction, we
come face to face with our helplessness and loss of control of our life.
Bad Food Hit List
Write out a list of the foods which
you eat the most and rate them one to ten, with ten being healthiest. The
toxic, high-fat foods go at the bottom of the list. The nutritious foods
that agree with you go at the top. Write a line beside each food
describing its qualities and effect on your body. We have a tendency to
forget the bad qualities and remember only the flavor. We might like the
taste of beans but forget how much we hate the gas problem. We eat
chocolate, then remember its effect when a mountainous pimple appears on
our nose as a reminder.
Decide which foods are the worst offender to your
health, and score it off the list. It may be potato chips or French fries.
A few times each day, encourage yourself by saying, "I am French fry free." Take the time to feel good that you have removed that
food from your diet. Remind yourself why you have crossed it off. We think
of junk food and addictive drugs in the same way; we forget the harmful
effects and remember only the good. By remembering the harmful qualities
of that food, it keeps you focused on why you choose not to eat that food.
I was addicted to bread. I loved the smell of toast.
Banana, honey and peanut butter made it complete. But bread causes an
intense reaction. It made me sleepy and unfocused. For me, eating bread
was like using a drug. Numerous friends would comment on my condition,
only to raise an eyebrow when I said "I ate some bread." I
would wake up with my skin and eyes puffy. I hated what it did to me but
loved the taste. One day I woke up particularly out of it and my friend,
noticing my state, jokingly called me, ‘bread man.’ That was
it; the bread was in the garbage. It was war. This stuff is out of my
life. It was the point of having enough, and the term ‘bread man’
engraved my mind with the image of a spaced out bread junkie.
That is how you must see yourself: in the worst light.
Look at how bad your addiction really is. It is humiliating that you are
stealing your dignity. Remember the worst experience of feeling stuffed
and bloated with gas, suffering from greasy skin and heartburn. See
addiction to food for the ugliness it is. It has to go. Addiction has
mocked you for the last time. You are up for the fight. You will not lose.
You have the tools, the desire and the knowledge.
Getting Started Check List.
Buy nutritious food.
Know triggers and weaknesses and have a plan to deal
with them.
Decide on an exercise program.
Write your reasons for quitting.
Take steps to make the first few days hassle-free.
Share your intention and ask for the support of a
friend.
Have quiet times to strengthen your resolve.
Journal
By the time we graduate from high
school, we will have learned and forgotten several million facts. Most
facts were worthy of forgetting, but writing them down keeps the most
important ones. In your journal write the lessons you have learned, the
good that you do, the good that happens to you, insights, successes and
mistakes. Consider each day, then review to see how you are doing. When
you consider the day, encourage yourself with your successes and bring the
mistakes into perspective.
What
to eat
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above was an excerpt from Eating in Freedom! The only
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